On a cool day in late fall several weeks ago, a van pulled up to The Christmas Tree Shop in Dartmouth and let off a dozen older women who scurried excitedly into the store to get started on their holiday shopping. After an hour or so of shopping, they got back in onto the van with their bags of holiday decorations and gifts, and took a quick ride over to the Applebee’s in Dartmouth to enjoy some lunch, coffee, and good conversation. After lunch, they wrapped up their day with a trip to Wal-Mart where they stocked up on more goodies and necessities before heading home.
This is just one of the many social outings that our program, Project Access, schedules throughout the year. Although the trip allowed the ladies to get started on their holiday shopping, it more importantly allowed them to spend the day in good company, enjoying stimulating conversation and compaionship over a satisfying meal.
As people age, they lose their spouses and friends. Their children, or other younger relatives, may have moved away. Some older adults soon lose their ability to drive. All of this change can result in isolation, anxiety, and depression. Ensuring older adults are supported by a network of friends and family becomes especially important.
Project Access is a program funded by a local foundation, the Association for the Relief of Aged Women (ARAW), and is run by Coastline. The program has almost 200 local, elderly participants, all of whom are women, and a majority of whom live alone and have very few family members and friends to keep help depression at bay.
The program provides participants with a support network, and a place to turn when they need assistance or simply need a friend. ARAW firmly believes in their motto that Project Access is “Not alms alone, but a friend.” With that in mind, Project Access staff work hard to build relationships with each of the women: they stop in for friendly visits, to share a cup of coffee, play a game of cards, or just chat. They also facilitate friendships among women with similar interests, and encourage them to sign up for monthly trips together.
It is important to Coastline and ARAW that the women use both organizations as a resource when they are experiencing financial or other difficulties–that the women can call them without embarassment if they need help. And several of the participants have called over the years. Project Access is proud to build friendships with all of these women and provide them with support as they age–another resource for local, elderly women which allows them to continue aging in their own homes in comfort.
Project Access is open to women aged 70 or older, preferably living alone in the towns of Acushnet, Dartmouth, Fairhaven, New Bedford, and Westport. To learn more about this program, you can contact the coordinator, Sharon O’Malley at 508-999-6400 ext. 107.






